I’m too tired to make a proper post about this, but maybe that is appropriate because my thoughts about it are not very clear
Basically … I think that in the sort of circles I have been in, there is not enough recognition of intellectual arrogance except when it falls into certain familiar, stereotypical patterns. There are certain notions of what an intellectually arrogant person looks like – something that roughly amounts to the “fedora Redditor” archetype. Someone who talks about how “rational” or “logical” they are, makes a point of caring about things like proper grammar or having a high IQ or being an atheist, that sort of thing.
To be honest, I’m not really sure I’ve ever encountered this guy? Maybe it’s because I spent my time on tumblr and not on, say, Reddit. But even if I accept that this guy exists and is as annoying as they say, I feel like I see lots of intellectual arrogance going unnoticed because it doesn’t fit a pattern like this.
In particular, I’ve met a lot of people who … really give me this vibe of thinking that their opinions are special, that they have some magic characteristic that makes them more insightful than most people and anoints their opinions as uncommonly interesting and legitimate and worth hearing. They’re often from “elite” backgrounds, often have intellectual parents, and seem to have spent all of their lives being treated as “one of the interesting people.” If these people were less socially competent – or less interested in social approval – they might become Euphoric Reddit Fedora Guy. Instead, they become, well …
They don’t lose the feeling that their opinions are special or that they’re smart. But they aggressively define themselves in opposition to the cliches about the sort of person who thinks themselves that way. They got high scores on standardized tests (and internalized the implied message), but are quick to tell you that they really think standardized tests are bullshit, and that anyone who suggests otherwise is [something bad]. They have highly refined tastes and judge others for not living up to them, but are canny enough to frame those judgments in superficially anti-elitist terms. (The popular stuff they dislike is problematic or regressive or based on dangerous “myths” about people and society, never mind that it’s liked by huge numbers of people from less privileged or elite backgrounds than theirs. The stuff they do like is politically and personally right-on, even if only people who went to elite liberal arts college have ever heard of it.)
The really big problem here is that the thing that results from resisting the cliche may in fact be a worse version of the cliche. The silver lining of the classic intellectual elitist – the “I have a high IQ let’s have a rational argument and discuss classical music, shall we“ person – is that their self-image requires them to take you seriously, as long as you talk the way they want. They think of themselves as dispassionate and logical, and hence if you disagree in a way that scans as dispassionate and logical, they can’t dismiss you out of hand, because they want to look like someone who would take you down with an argument instead of a dismissal.
There is a case to be made (and it has been made, a million times) about how this sort of demand on one’s interlocutors is stifling and overly restrictive. But at least it gives you, in principle, a way in – you may not always be able to get these people to treat you as a human being, but there is a clear, well-defined secret password that lets you do it, so long as you have the energy (etc.) to use it. (I said earlier that I’d never met the Reddit fedora guy, but I have met a number of people fitting the broader archetype that that narrower archetype belongs to, and we actually got on well once I figured out how their input syntax worked.)
But when a person who’s been told they’re smart and special all their lives internalizes the critique of the classic intellectual elitist, you tend to get the worst of both worlds. They hear the standard critique of “rational, dispassionate debate” as an ideal, and think “great! Now I can act like my opinions are special endlessly, without any built-in escape hatch.“ They can now guiltlessly dismiss people who question them or their sense of superiority, because we all know that dismissing people is OK sometimes, that “don’t dismiss anyone who’s making a dispassionate, rational argument” is an flawed ideal.
So you try to reach some sort of rock bottom where you and the person can admit you’re both human and continue from there, and your attempts to start from simple raw materials only get responses that amount to “lol i don’t need to explain myself to a pleb like you.” They’re special, you’re not. Retreating to bland dispassionate reason has been, among many other things, the traditional way of saying “look, we both put our pants on one leg at a time just like everyone else” – but now you don’t even have recourse to that. There is no escape.
Maybe it’s just that I went to a liberal arts college myself. But I feel like I see this person everywhere, and they’re never really challenged. There are no thinkpieces making fun of them, no snappy memetic terms for them. They are there, being every elitist jerk anyone ever hated except with a slight twist (and arguably worse), and no one seems to mind.
tyvm for posting, it got me thinking & I think I’m guilty of this, or at least of treating my thoughts as Special :\